Posted January 17, 2008
Maybe you can guess my question by the way she answered it.
"It's not pathetic, because I feel the same way. I spend my days wondering the same thing, wondering if I had talked to him before, would I be in the situation I am in now. I've wondered why things happen the way the do, and why other girls get noticed but not me, I think it's for the reason that I'm so shy and that radiates, even when I'm trying to be more outgoing. It really is hard to get through feeling lonely, I mean you could be in an ocean full of people or even with your two best and closest friends, but you'll still feel so alone. I'm sorry if I'm not much help, I'm kind of helping myself too, I really haven't read a questions that I can relate so much to. Your friend is right, but it's a lot harder than just speaking those words. It takes time, building confidence and friendships. No pressure to build your confidence, make friends little by little, and eventually, you'll find someone, I'm sure I will too. And everyone else who feels the same way."